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I’m Loving It

January16

Shut up and SEE!

38 Things

January9

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1. Guys are more emotional than you think, if they loved you at one point, it’ll take them a lot longer than you think to let you go, and it hurts every second that they try.

2. Guys may be flirting around all day, but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

3. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.

4. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

5. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they’re going for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.

6. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

7. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they’re still loved.

8. Guys don’t care how gorgeous you are, if you’re a bitch Goodbye.

9. Giving a guy a hanging message like ‘You know what?!..uh…nevermind..’ would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he’ll assume he did something wrong and he’ll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

10. Girls are guys’ weaknesses.

11. Guys are very open about themselves.

12. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.

13. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

14. Guys love you more than you love them.

15. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. They rarely use beautiful or gorgeous. If a guy uses that, he loves you or likes you a whole hell of a lot.

16. No matter how much guys talk about butts and boobs, personality is key.

17. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

18. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn’t notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

19. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

20. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he’s probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

21. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

22. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, ‘Please come and listen to me.’

23. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn’t happen that often, so when it does, you know something’s up.

24. When a guy tells you that you are beautiful, don’t say you aren’t. It makes them want to stop telling you because they don’t want you to disagree with them.

25. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he’s definitely thinking something.

26. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

27. Don’t be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

28. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

29. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

30. A guy would give his right nut to be able to read a girl’s mind for a day.

31. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He’s just too stubborn to admit it.

32. Not all guys are jerks. Just because ONE is a jackass doesn’t mean he represents ALL of them.

33. They love it when girls talk about their boobs. haha it’s true..

34. When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually

35. Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs.

36. Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it ..it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts.

37. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.

38. Even if you dump a guy months ago and he loved you he probably still does and if he had one wish it would be you to come back into his life.

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38 facts that i totally agree with, it might be 三八 things for some people. but for me..

RED – Critical Facts I FULLY agree with and I am

BLUE – Facts I very agree with and I am

It’s just another day for me. Good night my readers :D

Time

January4

Been chatting with Beng Beng aka Saw Looi Beng on msn.

- thekid – said (3:50 PM):
u got how many days leave? 5 days bring forward?
saw_lb@hotmail.com said (3:50 PM):
22
- thekid – said (3:50 PM):
damn fucking banyak
- thekid – said (3:51 PM):
22+5?
saw_lb@hotmail.com said (3:51 PM):
ya, because working more than 5 years
- thekid – said (3:51 PM):
oh
ya hor
i study also study liao 4 years
time flies

Now have a look into the back, these days I had been experiencing alot. Knowing different people in college, works, anywhere.

When we are sad, unhappy, we tend to express that every passing milliseconds is so difficult and so long. People always says life goes on life goes on, move on move on. In fact nobody really do stay on the ground.

In the short past, I’d been asking myself, is the time stopped?? Why could it so slow the past all these suffer days. The time walk ? run ? Not really, today i realized time do flies. Always flies….

Chatted with Jlo this morning, mentioned about decision. I always believe that our life is all about decision making. Making decision is a process just like how we pass our everyday, things that happened are always the consequences of the decision we made.

It is so true that when no decision is made, its some sort of decision that made.

We human always wanted to figure out what is life. What is time. I guess the process we figuring out what is life, that is life; the time we spent on figuring all these out is time. Well, I would agree that time flies. It sounds good for me.

We could hold anything we want, but not time. The moment we hold time, the moment we let go time.

Heavy

December24

Went to ss2 记得食 with wengfei and mankeong on winter solstic eve.

Coincidentally met with Shook Yeng, a primary school friend that not keep-in-touch for very very long, 10 years ?

That was her birthday night and sorry i’d forgotten to wish you shookyeng :P

Just came across her blog and i found out she had a very interesting post which i would like to share with everyone =D.

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Only for Chinese readers =D

Would like to share an article with you guys,an article that closely reflects our daily life.

能解決的事,不必去擔心;
不能解決的事,擔心也沒用。
在順境中感恩、在逆境中依舊心存喜樂 ……

累了,就把心事放下來
最近認識一位美國籍的出家師父,是個很有趣的事情。
特別是他叫我舉起蕃茄汁,跟他說話的經驗。
我們約在新竹的一家茶館,用英文談論著心經,
師父用英文跟我解釋因果、輪迴這些事情,這都還不稀奇。

有趣的事情在後頭呢!
師父一聽完我跟他提到~個人煩惱的時候,
他索性要我左手提起~他剛買的三罐番茄汁,
一邊提著,一邊跟他說話。
可想而知,我左手感覺到疲勞的程度,跟時間成了正比。
也懊惱著為何師父要我一邊提著三罐蕃茄汁,一邊跟他說話。
受不了這樣的酸楚,我自行把左手放下,
卻聽到師父跟我說:
「 Hold it up, and keep talking to me. 」

聽到這樣的話,心理不免起了疑心,
我手提的那麼酸,
為何不讓我放下手上的重物,輕鬆地與他對談?
約莫過了15分鐘,我的左手實在承受不住了,
才聽見師父跟我說:「Now you can put it down」。
看著我狐疑的臉,師父居然笑了出來。

「你不喜歡提著重物跟我說話, 為何你卻喜歡帶著煩惱,過著你的生活呢?
手酸了,放下就好,對待煩惱,不也是這樣?
或是這些煩惱,就像是那些番茄汁一樣,
是你自己用手把它們給舉起來的呢?」

有趣的經驗,對吧?
最近我開始這樣的練習,
一手舉起有重量的東西,一邊想著事情。
手酸了,自然會放下手上的東西,
看看有一天,我會不會也學到,心累了,就把心事給放下來。
我們能很容易的放下有形的重物,
卻很難放下無形的重擔。

執著的人生~會讓自己承擔莫需有的重擔。
學習放下執著~也就在學習人生自在。

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Sorry Mr & Mrs Banana, no translation provided :P
Merry Christmas Everyone!!!! Have a blast!!
ps: will update my company xmas party on next post, stay tune! :)

Revenge Cube

December6

Hohoho, whats Revenge Cube ??? Neither i know lol, but have a look at below image and you’ll find out…

Revenge Cube

yayaya RUBIK CUBE, i mean pasar malam’s version rubik cube….till now still no idea why it named Revenge Cube, probably because china people now really do concern about copyrights.

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However, thanks my colleague Ray Liew for helping me to buy this from Connaught Pasar Malam(wednesday)

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It’s quite fun that we exchange our experience, because solution to Rubik cube has a formula, we discussed about how many steps we get through out of 7. For me i think its something good to stimulate our brain especially programmer, when we had long time working on coding, we always get stuck or blur, try take a 2 minutes to solve a Rubik cube and back on working, i found out its pretty much to clear out my minds because we Chinese says 当局者迷, so i think a Rubik cube may distract our concentration on our works.

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Oh ya, its a toy for 6+ years old kid. btw i bet out of 6 billions people in the world, probably only 6% people may manage to solve a Rubik cube, both with skills or luck. So how about you?? did you manage to solve a Rubik cube in your life ?? I do, with luck. But now I’m learning to solve it step by step, Rubik cube is a brilliant invention, something like our life, we only looking for one outcome but there are billions of possibility and steps, some people may made a wrong move which causes the entire Rubik cube cant be solve. But if you look into it, no matter how this thing are turned or twisted, you’ll still have a chance to solve it as long as you dont break it…SO, if you’re still alive, what else will beat you ? :)

Enjoy solving your Rubik cube, enjoy living your life :)

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